My 2c worth
we also want to get involved with a fair amount of off-roading.
While the iO is a great vehicle I think this statement would preclude getting the iO and I'd be inclined to its bigger brother.
Why are you fixed on a shorty?
The 3.0 and 3.5's are both bulletproof, and extremely reliable. They are thirsty, and expect around 6 to 7km/l. The 3.5 DOHC is has considerably more go than the 3.5 SOHC or the 3.0, but at the expense of a pain to get to sparkplugs when it comes to servicing. Not sure if the DOHC was available in the SWB though.
Maintenance... pretty reasonable (my last service was R850)
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